Our Hearts and prayers go out to you during this very difficult time.
Brad Groves 2018-10-19T10:48:58
Lean on your faith in God that he will heal the pain that you are feeling with the loss of Lee.
I met Lee in 2002 when my brother Jeff began dating Lee’s daughter Dayna. Before I met the man in person, Jeff showed me a picture of Lee from high school, where he was a star shot putter. The picture was taken from a low angle, and showed Lee in the classic shot put pose – one huge, muscular arm extended to maintain balance, and the other arm cocked behind his head, the “put” all but engulfed in a massive paw.
As I studied this hulk of a man with perfect definition in muscle groups I didn’t even know existed, I remember secretly hoping that Lee was an even tempered man. Because even though my brother was an imposing figure in his own right, the guy in the picture I was handed looked like he could have played Arnold Schwarzenegger’s stunt double in the movie Hercules In New York.
When I actually did meet Lee, it took me all of two seconds to realize I had no reason to worry. Two things immediately struck me when I first shook his hand. One was that Lee (who was, at this point, decades removed from the young man I’d seen in that high school picture) could still, if he felt so inclined, rip my arm from its socket and beat me senseless with the same amount of effort it would take me to swat a fly. The second thing that struck me is that Lee would never do such a thing. It was all in his handshake – assertive and firm, but also warm and kind.
I know it’s cliche, but Lee truly was a gentle giant. Although I never spent enough time with him for our relationship to qualify as close, I saw him many, many times in the intervening years. From hot summer days spent lounging in the pool behind the house he shared with his wife, Candy, to dozens of holidays and get-togethers spent playing games and shooting the breeze, Lee’s was always a welcome presence.
I will miss his grace, his generosity of spirit, his hospitality, and his simple, yet profound kindness. And while I wish I could say I knew him more, I’m grateful to say I knew him at all.
I extend my deepest sympathies to all those affected by this loss, but especially to those Lee held dearest – Candy, Erik, Dayna, and Josh – all of whom stand as monuments to kindness in their own rights. Lee’s legacy will be one most strive for, but never achieve – a lifetime spent in service to his convictions and faith; a beautiful family; and a sea of people who were moved by how diligently he cultivated the Fruits of the Spirit in his own heart, and how freely he gave them to anyone fortunate enough to cross his path.
David Rebelak 2018-10-19T09:53:54
Psalm 34:18 The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
How grieved we are with you Candy, Erik, Dayna & Josh. Although Lee will be sorely missed on this earth, we can be comforted to know he is rejoicing pain-free in heaven. Lee leaves a legacy of the 4 of you, who all model such true Christian character and kindness of spirit. My family was privileged to know Lee. He was always so interesting to talk to and see his talent unfold in all of his crafts and projects. And I was blessed and encouraged to witness how patient and uncomplaining spirit he bore during his illness. He touched so many lives and we will miss him. God bless.
Violet Steve and Makayla 2018-10-18T03:28:51
Candy and family,
Marcia Henneberry 2018-10-13T10:04:11
I am so sorry for your loss, and did not know that Lee had been ill. When Bill & I lived on Hallen, I remember visiting with Lee when I was out walking and also seeing him at craft fairs. He was a very talented man and always friendly. Thinking of you and family with prayers.
Joshua, so sorry for your loss
jay burgus 2018-10-05T07:59:09
You all are in my prayers. Dayna, we love you. May you all feel the presence of the Lord and find comfort in Him
Ralph Stacey 2018-10-03T21:39:04
Candy, Dayna, Eric,
GAry Rebelak 2018-10-03T16:21:43
Just wanted to express my sorry at Lee’s Passing. He will be sorely missed because he was such a great guy.Our loss is Heaven’s gain.
From the moment we met Lee, we felt the gentle love of the Lord in his heart. His sweet smile and compassion sealed our love for him.
Vernon and Faith 2018-10-03T14:55:17
We grieve with you at the loss of such a great man in this world, yet we know he is rejoicing in heaven with our Savior. To know that he is now able run, oh what joy, he looked forward to this very moment and now knows the joy we all long for. To know that he grew in Christ to the very end, to know that he spread God’s love to others, to know him personally, how blessed we have been to know Lee. A man who patiently persevered, without complaint, who modeled true character for us, can’t wait to see him again. We love you all so much and prayers for the family.
We are so very sorry for your loss. We live 2 houses away from you on Hallen Ave. Eric knows who we are. Our prayers are with you all.
Ron and Lynne Ortgiesen 2018-10-03T13:51:09
Jeremy and I are so sorry for your loss. We are friends of Dayna and her family. Prayers to you.
Vikki Weeden 2018-10-03T12:59:39
Rest in peace Mr. Carlson.
Damian Edyta and Alex Piotrowski 2018-10-03T12:41:51
The family has my deepest love and prayers. Even though I did not know you personally, I am friends with Dayna, Jeff and Joshua from church, the love shared about Mr. Carlson always present and shared. He was loved so much. I pray for peace and comfort for the family, cherish your memories and know Mr. Carlson is no longer suffering, is home with the Lord now and I know he will be rejoicing when you see him again. What a reunion that will be.
Donna M Walker 2018-10-03T12:12:41
I never had the privilege of meeting Lee in person, but I know his daughter Dayna well. What I do know is that Lee loved Dayna so so well, and raised her to be a sweet, kind, humble, encouraging, loving, faithful, gracious, and patient woman/follower of Christ. I’m guessing I see in Dayna only a fraction of the stand up man of God he was throughout his life. I’m praying for Candy, Erik, Dayna and rest of the loved ones as their grieving is equal to their celebration of his life and their peaceful confidence he is now free of pain and with his Maker Jesus.
Jennie Willoughby 2018-10-03T11:54:59
Sweet Ms. Candy, Dayna and Erik:
Our hearts break for you, but rejoice at the same time. While they are no longer physically here, we can take comfort knowing they are with our Lord and no longer suffering. Love to you all.
Isaiah 60:19 – The sun will no more be your light by day, nor will the brightness of the moon shine on you, for the Lord will be your everlasting light, and your God will be your glory.
Paige and Joshua Sanders 2018-10-03T11:42:29
We are thinking of y’all in this time of sorrow and sadness! It was a pleasure to be able to meet him! Lee was a wonderful man to be around and to know! Matthew 5:3 &4 reads…Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Amy LaRusch 2018-10-03T10:54:56
Candy, Erik,Dayna Josh and Jeff.My family and I can’t express how much Lee meant to all of us.So many years of fun,holidays &vacations. Always a role model for all of us, with his strong faith.Until the last hours of his passing he was praying for others. God bless. Love Shotsy and Henry
Cheryl and Henry Husemann 2018-10-03T10:14:49
Having known Lee, as well as his family, since our early childhood days in elementary school I have witnessed the growth of a child into a man of faith and principals. We remained friends throughout our lives and I will always consider him the brother I never had. I know that we will meet again and renew our eternal connection.
Barney & Barb Bishop 2018-10-02T07:56:56
Rest in peace and the Lord Lee and God bless Candy, Erik, Dayna, Joshua and the rest of the family.
Barney (& Barb) Bishop
He was a very good man. Someone who others should strive to be like. I feel like knowing him was a privilege for me. I’m so glad I got to say goodbye. So sorry for your lose.
Dave Silberhorn 2018-10-01T22:08:58
Aunt Candy Dayna and Erik…you are in our thoughts and prayers daily. Our condolences….love you all. Shaun and Kati
Kari (Carlson) Otto 2018-10-01T21:28:58
please accept our deepest condolences for your family’s loss
Bruce & nora 2018-10-01T20:05:32